Judgement

   This situation happened in a car park at a mall.....
A guy parks his car in an improper way in the OKU parking area. And he rushes entered the mall. Another guy saw this incident and........

A: wehhh ni melampau agak2 la kau normal kot suka2 hati ja park dekat parking OKU..Ni kena viral ni..

And this guy start recording using his phone and the best part is of course he post on his Facebook account.
Malaysian will be a Malaysian..... People start bashing the guy(who is parking). All bad words flying through the comments section. Cursing him like nobody's business.
The man whose recorded should proud with himself. He spread the good thing  perhaps.

People keep bashing, wishing he got ended his life hanging. And the worst part is his car got burnt.
Without knowing the truths, and reluctant to investigate further, they come out with their own conclusion, their own judgement.

The truth is......

He got a phone call from the mall. They are telling him that his WIFE got heart attack. He suddenly goes to the mall and hard to find a park. Once he gets the park, he rushes to get his wife. And his wife DEAD. After the ambulance took his wife to hospital, he came back to his car.

Suddenly he realises that the parking is for OKU.

"Rm500 fine for those parks in this area "

He went back to the counter and insist to pay that fine. The worker, reluctant to take the payment.  He put the cash on the counter and left to hospital.

It is too late now. He lost everything, he lost his wife, his car got burnt and all negative vibes surrounded him.

Sometimes we think we've done a right thing. And we think we have fulfilled our duty as a human being without realizing that we make something worse.

Just because we see the situation, it doesn't mean that we know the exact situation.

Thank you sir for sharing this story with me. Now it's made  me realise that it is okay to judge someone, judge something, but if you want to know the details, go find the person involved  asked them the truth.
Stop judging people like we are in their shoes. Like we know them closely.
And one more thing, just because we close to one person, doesn't mean that we know everything about him/her.
In this real life, even though someone tells you their secret, their private issues,  you don't have a right to judge them. They tell you everything means they already put themselves in a high risk situation.
The risk that their  secret might spread around so that is your responsibility to keep that secret safe with you.
P/s
Once you break that trust it's hard for you to gain it back.
It's just like you nail the wall, when you pull the nail out, the impact is still there.